By
Cesar Millan
Post from: http://www.cesarsway.com/tips/yournewdog/Before-You-Adopt
With the overpopulation in shelters around the country and the high
numbers of euthanization (4.5 million pets a year), adopting a dog is
one of the best things you can do to help this problem.
But, before you go out and adopt a dog, there are some important
steps you need to take and questions to ask yourself to make sure you
are ready. From knowing how to choose the right dog to being armed with
the information you need to develop a harmonious relationship with your
new dog, these tips will help prepare you to step up as the
pack leader from day one!
• Take your family and children feelings about adopting a dog into consideration.
Kids recently returned to school. Do you have a routine in place? Do
you have structure in your life? The environment we bring a dog into is
very important. Who is going to be doing the dog walking, feeding him,
taking him to the vet? Is everyone on board with bringing a dog into the
home? If not, trust me, your new dog will know and sense the
resentment.
• Are you honestly ready for the responsibility of a dog?
Open your mind and determine where your state of mind is. Do you know
what if feels like to be calm and assertive? Why do you want to adopt a
dog? Be honest! Your own behavior will be a direct reflection in the
dog’s behavior, so look at clues in your life that tell you where your
head is. For example, take a look at your closet. Is it neat and
organized? Does that have any clues as to how you live your life? Your
actions tell a story. No matter how many people I’ve consulted over the
years, the state of the closet has always been a true test of their
ability to provide a dog with a structured life that has rules,
boundaries, and limitations.
• Figure out how well you can schedule your dog into your life.
What is your work life like? How punctual are you? If you can’t be
honest with yourself, ask your friends and ask them to be honest. If you
are not reliable or a good manager of time or if you make excuses for
being late, you might be one of those people who makes excuses for why
they didn’t go on a dog
walk
that day or didn’t make time to go to the park. It might seem like a
small minor detail, but when it comes to fulfilling your new dog and
keeping him balanced, these oversights matter!
• Check out how dog-friendly your neighborhood is.
How are the dogs that live near you? Is there a park or hiking trails
nearby? Where’s the closest vet and 24-hour emergency? Do you have
relationships with your neighbors? How socialized your neighbors’ dogs
are is an indication of how your own may be – of course, this is up to
you as the pack leader, and if your neighborhood doesn’t provide
socialization opportunities, you will need to find other ways to
properly socialize your new dog.
• Choose a dog with an energy level equal to or lower than your own.
Never adopt a dog with higher energy. Consider their age and your own.
Make sure you evaluate the dog when he’s been out of the cage for some
time and has had a walk. Take him out and see how he behaves. A dog in a
cage is not going to give you the reality of their natural energy.
• Don’t generalize based on a dog's breed, but do consider the characteristics of that breed.
Just because you loved German Shepherds as a child doesn’t mean you are
at a stage or place in your life to properly care for, stimulate, and
exercise such a smart and powerful dog.
• Consider Fostering a Dog First. If you’re unsure
of whether the new dog you’ve chosen is right for your family and
lifestyle, consider fostering before making a commitment. Fostering is
incredibly important part of rescuing dog. It’s also a responsible way
to know whether you’re ready to take on a new dog in your life and
properly care for it. Plus, fostering takes them out of the shelter and
if you are armed with the proper information, you can help transition
the dog from shelter life to home life. Even if you decide that this
particular dog isn’t a match for you, he may be the perfect dog for
someone else who better matches his energy level or lack thereof. If you
have a cat, fostering is a great way to test the waters to see if the
cat is ready or able to live happily with a dog in the home. Tread
lightly and take baby steps in the beginning!
• Don’t overlook the senior dogs. Senior dogs need
homes just as badly as the cute puppies. They may not be suited to a
home with very young children, as they’re not as accustomed to being
around kids’ high energy. But they are wonderful companions for homes
that are not as active. They may need less exercise and more health
care, but the love they give in return is the reward.
• Don’t make an emotional decision when choosing a dog.
When you decide the time is right, leave your emotions at the door.
Going into a shelter is devastating and sad. But if you let your weaker
emotions control your brain and feel sorry for the dog, you may end up
adopting a dog that isn’t right for you, your family, or your
environment. Save yourself the heartache and struggles later by being
methodical and aware now.
• Know what it means to be your dog's pack leader. From day one, establish the relationship and bond with your new dog. Knowledge is power, so do your homework!
• Enjoy the Process of Adopting a Dog. Dogs have
brought me more gifts and taught me more than I could have ever dreamed
of. Balanced dogs bring us calm, peace, joy, and love, as much as we
bring them. So get started on the right foot and you can look forward to
a lifetime of happiness and fulfillment with them.